What are the duties of a Muslim in front of husband
The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a woman observes the five prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said, “Enter Paradise through the gate that wish!” One of the main tasks of the woman – the pleasure of her husband. Therefore, this topic is the most discussed among Muslim women. Today we will analyze the duties of a wife towards her husband.
From the moment a girl gets married, the obedience her husband became her primary responsibility. The obedience of the wife and her education is the right of a husband. A woman should not complain about my husband to my parents and talking outside the door of their relationship. The only exceptions are those cases where the husband is forcing them to do something contrary to the Sharia (for example: illegal to wear the hijab, fasting in Ramadan). The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “Prayer of two people hardly rises above their heads is a runaway slave and the rebellious wife”. The wife should at any time be prepared to meet the needs of the husband, except in those cases where this is not permissible by Shariah (status Haida or nifas). The rest of the time she has no right to refuse him. The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a man summoned his wife for his need, she will come to him, even if it is at the stove”. In another hadith it is stated: “If the husband called his wife to bed and she refuses, the angels will curse her until morning”. Therefore, a woman is not permissible to observe voluntary fasting without the permission of the husband, as this may violate his rights. The prophet (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “a Woman cannot fast-Sunnah in the presence of her husband without his permission” (Bukhari). A woman should not leave home without her husband’s permission. In the hadith: “a Believer in God the woman is not allowed to leave the house against the wishes of her husband.” She should not associate with those women that forbids to communicate with her husband. You can get in if you know in advance that the husband will not be angry. At the same time, the husband should not restrict the freedom of the wife without apparent reason, if she wants to go to a mosque or to visit his parents, or in places where there is no Jarama. The wife must preserve and protect the property of her husband in his absence. Not allowed to give anything, if I know that my husband would be against it. Of course, permissible to feed with food the needy, for it will be rewarded by the wife and husband. Also allowed to give anything a minor, if the husband won’t mind. Narrated from Abu Hurayra that the messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said, “What a wife is the best?” He replied: “The one who pleases him when he looks at her, obeys him if he ever tells her, and not against the husband, if he doesn’t like something in it or in how it spends its property”. You need to be content with what brings husband and thank him. No need to nag her husband and say that is not enough. You can thus provoke him to get money forbidden by. On the contrary, you should take care to ask my husband to bring home only those funds that are earned lawful manner. Don’t compare it with the husbands of your sisters or girlfriends. Remember, everyone has their flaws. If you will thank her husband for even minor gifts, he will be pleased to do it more often. The husband needs to feel important in the family. If the husband is not happy with his wife or something had offended the husband, we must ask forgiveness. The hadith says: “When in this world the wife offends, sad husband, houris, destined to him in Heaven, saying: “may Allah destroy you, he lives with you temporarily, because soon he will be forgiven with you and come to us.” Even if the husband was wrong, and the wife first approach it, it will work for this sawabi. Also said, “the wife that is angry with the husband, does not accept the prayers and good acts do not rise to heaven. However, if the wife agrees not to perform any unlawful Sharia wishes of her husband, she would not be sin.” The wife should respect and honor our parents and relatives of the husband. Honor them, honor their parents. Be thankful to them for what they raised your husband. The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “Whoever does not respect their elders, and does not spare the younger is not from us”. The woman should do the housework, washing, cleaning the house. Because the husband is busy with the production of food for the family. The prophet (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “the Woman responsible for the house of her husband, and she will be questioned about it” (Bukhari). Not allowed to let the house of people, a husband who would not like to see in his house. Especially not allowed to let the house of men. The wife has to hide their aurata and avoid her views on foreign men. All the beauty of the wife belongs to her husband. Also prohibited not to undress in the house of her husband. One day, Aisha (radiallahu ANHA) was a woman from sham, and Aisha said, “Who are you?” “We are residents of sham.” Aisha said, “I Guess you are one of those places where women passedout public baths?” The women said “Yes”. Then Aisha said: “Verily I heard the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “Any woman who removed the clothes, not in the house of her husband, tears the veil between her and Allah!” (Abu Daud/170). You can’t uncover the secrets of her husband to talk about his faults to anyone. It is also prohibited to disclose the intimate side of life. The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said, “The lowest in front of Allah on the day of judgment will be a man, oedinyayuschihsya with his wife and a woman, Yedinaya with her husband and then telling secrets to each other” ( Muslim). The wife should take care of children. To be patient with him. To teach them the basics of religion. If my husband had children from a previous wife, they should also feel good about.
We have listed only the basic duties of a wife. A righteous wife should try to please your husband. Let us remember the mothers of the faithful. Even if your husband has a bad temper do SABR. Assiya (radiallahu ANHA) the wife of Pharaoh, despite the fact that her husband was a cursed tyrant, endured. She annoyed him when he was not in the mood. However, she kept the religion and the orders of his Lord. No need to argue with her husband, to accuse him. If the spouse in a bad mood don’t tease him asking for one. Leave and don’t disturb him. Men has many duties, they must be persistent, take care of the food for the family, take care of all the problems, so very tired.
In one hadith narrated that once the camel bowed to the ground the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam). Seeing this, the companions asked: “If this animal bows to you then why can’t we have this honor?” To which he replied: “Never. But if I were to command that one man knelt down in front of the other to prostrate, then I would, of course, ordered the woman to bow down before her husband”.