“SHOULD only child to feel loved and cherished and surrounded by a happy family, as it has become a powerful stimulus for the development of his brain.
The parent task is not to make a child Prodigy, but the fact that their child grew up healthy, sober, and decent,” said Peter Gorski, an employee of the medical faculty of Harvard University.
All parents want their children to become moral, caring and sensitive people. You can achieve this goal if we will try to set a good example, to be a friend, companion and teacher.
Although all children have an innate ability to do good and right, parents still need to constantly instill in them moral values.
Scientists disagree about who most affects the development of the child. According to some, his character is influenced by peers.
However, experts in the field of Pediatrics berry Brazelton and Stanley Greenspan emphasized that the sensitivity and responsiveness in children from an early age parents lay.
Further experience and peer influence are only additions to what is laid down in the child from the beginning.
It is important that the family was shown to the children compassion and understanding. Also it is important to teach them restraint characteristic of Mature people. Children receiving Continue reading
Parents sometimes face the situation that they tell the child one thing and he does not hear and does the opposite. There is the anger and outrage. Let’s see what was the matter. Why the child “hear” what you say? It turns out the child perceives our phrase on its own.
In the childhood phrase-programs are easily digested, as the child’s mind control is lower than in adults. Any careless word perceived by children literally. Parents, often without realizing it, inform the child of the phrase with a hidden installation that is not benefiting them. Of course, this happens unconsciously, we are trying to help, but use the incorrect phrase.
Today we look at the often used phrase and determine how their child hears.
«do Not walk through puddles, catch a cold”, “the dog ” bite”, “Eat slowly, your stomach will be sore”, etc.
The child hears that the world is hostile. All, whatever he did, it is dangerous. That is, it is better to do nothing.
In the future it may become passive, afraid to make a step towards peace, it will Continue reading
The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a woman observes the five prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said, “Enter Paradise through the gate that wish!” One of the main tasks of the woman – the pleasure of her husband. Therefore, this topic is the most discussed among Muslim women. Today we will analyze the duties of a wife towards her husband.
From the moment a girl gets married, the obedience her husband became her primary responsibility. The obedience of the wife and her education is the right of a husband. A woman should not complain about my husband to my parents and talking outside the door of their relationship. The only exceptions are those cases where the husband is forcing them to do something contrary to the Sharia (for example: illegal to wear the hijab, fasting in Ramadan). The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “Prayer of two people hardly rises above their heads is a runaway slave and the rebellious wife”. The wife should at any time be prepared to meet the needs of the husband, except in those cases where this is not permissible by Shariah (status Haida or nifas). The rest of the time she has no right to refuse him. The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a man summoned his wife Continue reading