It is no coincidence that nature “intended” so that kids born from two “halves” – mom and dad’s. That is why it is so important to the education of the child was attended by both parents. The gender of the baby is irrelevant. It is considered that boys need a father’s education more than girls. But the significance of the Pope for girls is huge! Pope underpin the development of femininity in their daughters, looking at daddy, girls, and then girls, determine criteria for the choice of her future husband. Dad teaches his daughter to interact with the opposite sex (how you should behave with boys). Daddy’s love gives the girl a sense of confidence in their own attractiveness and femininity.
For girls is as important daddy’s praise and love, as for boys.
Father’s role in the upbringing of his son – in the first government, to show, how to be a real man. But it’s not every dad is behaving like a real man. And in this case, dear mom, raising boys without their dad, better a good example of a grandfather than a bad example of the Pope.
In a family where there is no father, but has a loving mother, the boy could only feel the lack of male attention and care. Everything else is able to give the mom and family. Continue reading
To 13 months, many parents begin to feel the stubbornness of children and to engage them in conflict, because the kids loudly declare your desires. This is the age of surprises for parents. But for children it is natural at this age to Express their desires, their opinions, develop a sense of his power and the feeling of influence on the world. For them it is now the main task.
A feature of this age is the word “no”, but it turns out that we teach this to their children. Neuroscientist Alan shore said that the baby hears the word “no” or its equivalent on average every nine minutes. Kids want to assert their will, and for them it is quite natural goal, but every time they hear: “No, you cannot play the pot on the couch, give it to me. Don’t run, sit in the car now. No, candy is not. No, it may break. Don’t fight!” Legitimate bans, every one of them. But the kid does not see the grounds for them, so most children resent, rebel and check every ban. This new feature is belligerent stubbornness — the first step to taking responsibility for yourself. Now if he’s not allowed to tell you “no”, then he will not be able to say “no” to their peers when they become a teenager. Give him a chance Continue reading