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What are the duties of a Muslim in front of husband

The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a woman observes the five prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said, “Enter Paradise through the gate that wish!” One of the main tasks of the woman – the pleasure of her husband. Therefore, this topic is the most discussed among Muslim women. Today we will analyze the duties of a wife towards her husband.

From the moment a girl gets married, the obedience her husband became her primary responsibility. The obedience of the wife and her education is the right of a husband. A woman should not complain about my husband to my parents and talking outside the door of their relationship. The only exceptions are those cases where the husband is forcing them to do something contrary to the Sharia (for example: illegal to wear the hijab, fasting in Ramadan). The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “Prayer of two people hardly rises above their heads is a runaway slave and the rebellious wife”. The wife should at any time be prepared to meet the needs of the husband, except in those cases where this is not permissible by Shariah (status Haida or nifas). The rest of the time she has no right to refuse him. The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a man summoned his wife Continue reading

The Education of girls

Modern style – assertive, aggressive, bold. Teenage girls trying to keep up guys: foul language, doing karate and Wu Shu, Smoking, drinking, “change partners”, often joined gangs. Femininity many feel undervalued, seen as a sign of weakness. In honor of a friend’s He-man, are able to put the opponent on shovels. Them, however, it is difficult to imagine a gentle, caring mothers. But it is not necessary, they are not that type. And look at toys. Unless earlier girls were invited to play in culturistic, hung with a variety of weapons? In fairness, I note that charming dolls with porcelain faces, too, of course, is on the shelves. But first, cannot afford them, and secondly, this is yesterday, the retro. I’m not talking about books. In fact, twenty years ago, we had enough specifically the maiden references (here it is, “asexual pedagogy”!): read to the holes “Dink” Aseeva, some story of Lev Kassil, novels of Alexander green, very popular in the 70’s and 80’s. “girls, girls, Girls is the book for you.” Now books for girls and less. Old not all reissued, and the new is, in General, crime and adventure for boys and about boys. Even “Alice” Kir Bulychev, in my experience, Continue reading

Tips for parents of fifth graders

For fifth-grader who comes to school on 1 September, everything is new. The transition of pupils from primary to secondary school coincides with a peculiar late childhood — stable period of development in a child’s life. Yesterday he was young, and tomorrow will be a solid fifth-grader. In fifth grade your child will find a new adulthood, a new system of instruction: the class teacher and subject teachers who teach new subjects in different rooms. Some fifth graders are proud to have grown up, and is quickly drawn into the learning process, while others experience changes in school life, and adapting to them is delayed. The successful adaptation of a younger teenager depends not only on its intellectual readiness, but also on how well he is able to build relationships and communicate with classmates and teachers, to comply with school rules, to be guided in new situations. In this period, children often change — anxious without any obvious reason, become timid, or, conversely, a cheeky, too much fuss. As a result the boys reduced efficiency, they become forgetful, disorganized, sometimes in children worsen sleep and appetite.Therefore, among the difficulties Continue reading

Tips for parents, questionnaire
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Some more tips for parents of schoolchildren
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