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The Contact with the child

Sometimes that busy parents lose contact with the child. How can I recover it? Another frequent situation is that adults come together, form a family, men need to establish contact with the child from his first marriage. How?

Describe Your relationship at the moment.

What would You like to see your relationship with Your child?

What is your relationship with the child’s mother?

Those involved in raising the child?

How often and how much time spends with the child wife?

How often and how much time they spend with the child You?

What do You do with a child when spending time together?

Do You know the interests and Hobbies of Your child?

Do You know his favorite books, movies?

Do You know his friends?

Would You like Your child’s behavior was similar to You? – then take the process of education into their own hands. Continue reading

What are the duties of a Muslim in front of husband

The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a woman observes the five prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said, “Enter Paradise through the gate that wish!” One of the main tasks of the woman – the pleasure of her husband. Therefore, this topic is the most discussed among Muslim women. Today we will analyze the duties of a wife towards her husband.

From the moment a girl gets married, the obedience her husband became her primary responsibility. The obedience of the wife and her education is the right of a husband. A woman should not complain about my husband to my parents and talking outside the door of their relationship. The only exceptions are those cases where the husband is forcing them to do something contrary to the Sharia (for example: illegal to wear the hijab, fasting in Ramadan). The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “Prayer of two people hardly rises above their heads is a runaway slave and the rebellious wife”. The wife should at any time be prepared to meet the needs of the husband, except in those cases where this is not permissible by Shariah (status Haida or nifas). The rest of the time she has no right to refuse him. The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a man summoned his wife Continue reading

How to teach 7-year-old son to obey?

Your question is complicated by their small informative — unfortunately, the information provided by you is not enough for a full-fledged system of psychoanalysis. However, I will try to respond maximally deployed.

This stubborn “Golden” child

Strangely enough, but the efforts of parents, the most stubborn and disobedient child may be the one born with the “Golden” child, obedient, diligent and kind.

We are talking about children with anal vector. You can call them the “mamonovskij” — these children, like anyone else, depend on mom, with her approval (or disapproval). These children are sometimes called passive — they are really led and need mom directed, praised, recognized his achievements.

Anal children differ in rigidity of thinking, and a slower metabolism. Their body is not designed for sprint races — in all senses of the word. Therefore, these children sometimes seem slow, and the parents may be tempting to hurry the child.

This leads to the fact that the child strays from his rhythm and can’t finish the job. Due to the peculiarities Continue reading

The Education of girls
Modern style - assertive, aggressive, bold. Teenage girls trying to keep up guys: foul language, doing karate and Wu Shu, Smoking, drinking, "change partners", often joined gangs. Femininity many feel…

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Small children.
The lectures of the famous British child psychiatrist and psychoanalyst addressed to pediatricians, internists, obstetricians, nurses, and, of course, parents. For parents and expectant moms and dads - this book…

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WHY CHILDREN do NOT RESPOND TO REQUESTS
As we often hear from parents that children do not pay attention to requests. And the parents are angry, frustrated, "How many times can you play that again? You are…

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