Many parents care about their child as early as possible “sat on the potty.” And starting early to potty train, many of them fail, blaming it on just your baby. But was he really?
Some parents are trying to teach your child to potty as soon as he started to sit up, trying to get rid of Laundry and diapers, others, on the contrary, in no hurry, and their child at the right time a few days he suddenly sits to the right place.
Why is this happening? And the thing is that every baby has periods most sensitive to the development in that skill associated with the maturation of organs and systems of the body. Toilet training of the child must involve a sufficient period of strengthening the walls of the bladder, nervous system development and certain centers of the brain. And it happens not before 1 year 4 months. I note that this is the average age, in fact some children begin to control the processes of urination and defecation a little earlier and others a little later, but in any case, they all go through the same stages of development.
By the way, it should be noted that those parents who try to teach your toddler to use a toilet too early, often wait too early successes from him in other areas of development. Continue reading
Modern style – assertive, aggressive, bold. Teenage girls trying to keep up guys: foul language, doing karate and Wu Shu, Smoking, drinking, “change partners”, often joined gangs. Femininity many feel undervalued, seen as a sign of weakness. In honor of a friend’s He-man, are able to put the opponent on shovels. Them, however, it is difficult to imagine a gentle, caring mothers. But it is not necessary, they are not that type. And look at toys. Unless earlier girls were invited to play in culturistic, hung with a variety of weapons? In fairness, I note that charming dolls with porcelain faces, too, of course, is on the shelves. But first, cannot afford them, and secondly, this is yesterday, the retro. I’m not talking about books. In fact, twenty years ago, we had enough specifically the maiden references (here it is, “asexual pedagogy”!): read to the holes “Dink” Aseeva, some story of Lev Kassil, novels of Alexander green, very popular in the 70’s and 80’s. “girls, girls, Girls is the book for you.” Now books for girls and less. Old not all reissued, and the new is, in General, crime and adventure for boys and about boys. Even “Alice” Kir Bulychev, in my experience, Continue reading
The first sign that delivers the infant to the adult, it is screaming and crying. Report problems to the baby until it can only be the only available method. How to understand what the child wants to say and how to help him? Why is the child crying?
The first child’s cry has a “human” sense, it means something. The baby can be hot or cold, he was hungry, to drink, to sleep, sometimes he wants to communicate and just bored one lie in the crib. From the first days it is better to listen to a crying baby, to answer this important question “Why is baby crying?”, and to begin to discern what different types of crying, what it sounds intonation – complaint, demand, claim. The view that “let her scream – your lungs will be better developed” may not be here as a guide to action. Imagine what would have happened if all the strength had tried to inform others about the need for aid, and they would be turned away from You and did not react. But baby it all feels. A crying baby is not a way to “manipulate” adults, and a cry for help in a situation is really problematic for the baby.
Why is the child crying?
What you need to pay attention, trying to understand why the child is crying:
The nature of the cry: intense, sharp, long, loud, the volume Continue reading