Many parents care about their child as early as possible “sat on the potty.” And starting early to potty train, many of them fail, blaming it on just your baby. But was he really?
Some parents are trying to teach your child to potty as soon as he started to sit up, trying to get rid of Laundry and diapers, others, on the contrary, in no hurry, and their child at the right time a few days he suddenly sits to the right place.
Why is this happening? And the thing is that every baby has periods most sensitive to the development in that skill associated with the maturation of organs and systems of the body. Toilet training of the child must involve a sufficient period of strengthening the walls of the bladder, nervous system development and certain centers of the brain. And it happens not before 1 year 4 months. I note that this is the average age, in fact some children begin to control the processes of urination and defecation a little earlier and others a little later, but in any case, they all go through the same stages of development.
By the way, it should be noted that those parents who try to teach your toddler to use a toilet too early, often wait too early successes from him in other areas of development. Continue reading
The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a woman observes the five prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be said, “Enter Paradise through the gate that wish!” One of the main tasks of the woman – the pleasure of her husband. Therefore, this topic is the most discussed among Muslim women. Today we will analyze the duties of a wife towards her husband.
From the moment a girl gets married, the obedience her husband became her primary responsibility. The obedience of the wife and her education is the right of a husband. A woman should not complain about my husband to my parents and talking outside the door of their relationship. The only exceptions are those cases where the husband is forcing them to do something contrary to the Sharia (for example: illegal to wear the hijab, fasting in Ramadan). The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “Prayer of two people hardly rises above their heads is a runaway slave and the rebellious wife”. The wife should at any time be prepared to meet the needs of the husband, except in those cases where this is not permissible by Shariah (status Haida or nifas). The rest of the time she has no right to refuse him. The messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi WA sallam) said: “If a man summoned his wife Continue reading
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This stubborn “Golden” child
Strangely enough, but the efforts of parents, the most stubborn and disobedient child may be the one born with the “Golden” child, obedient, diligent and kind.
We are talking about children with anal vector. You can call them the “mamonovskij” — these children, like anyone else, depend on mom, with her approval (or disapproval). These children are sometimes called passive — they are really led and need mom directed, praised, recognized his achievements.
Anal children differ in rigidity of thinking, and a slower metabolism. Their body is not designed for sprint races — in all senses of the word. Therefore, these children sometimes seem slow, and the parents may be tempting to hurry the child.
This leads to the fact that the child strays from his rhythm and can’t finish the job. Due to the peculiarities Continue reading