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Why do children steal

When parents notice that their beloved child, which seems to be in need of nothing, slowly drags mom’s money from her purse, they usually panic. Meanwhile, according to experts, child stealing is a very common family problem.

Child theft is a frequent phenomenon, but carefully concealed as alcoholism and other “shameful” family secrets. In the minds of most adults firmly soldered two mythologies: the child is an innocent angel, and stealing – a sign of the criminal world, for normal people alien. When a child is caught stealing, the parents usually feel completely confused. One at that, go into hysterics, going either shoot themselves, or to pin their crimes on their hapless child. others prefer to pretend that nothing happened, because how to react is unclear.

Experts believe that the only correct response to the theft does not exist: it depends on the reasons why a child steals. There are three main causes of child stealing. The first is a children’s impulsivity. The child may steal simply because it’s very easy, and to resist the temptation, on the contrary, it is difficult. The second reason is the difficulty in communicating with parents. Some children think that parents pay little attention. When they steal their Continue reading

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Or the difference in upbringing

M AMA in a child’s life is nature itself, something that nourishes, protects, teaches co-exist with all in the circle in harmony, not violence. To teach patience, timeliness, acceptance of change and stimulates harmonious changes in the nature and body of the baby.

If you need anything regularity that is more organic mom to watch it and to teach to remember the baby by themselves (hygiene, self-care, independence, etc. in General, anything that allows it to adapt in the world). The function of adaptation is the female energy! And precisely this is the essence of motherhood.

If your child has problems with the environment, with peers, communication, trust, and adherence to code of laws imposed by the outside world, it is the problem MOM. And no one can replace her, no surrogates in the form of educators, teachers, psychologists and psychotherapists. (well, except that dad may try in case of complete absence of mom, but I successful cases of such transformation is not known).

But dad is the energy of action, cognition, conquest! Only the male energy is able to teach to learn, to strive to achieve something, to overcome yourself and your abilities, and life’s obstacles on the way to the goal!

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Children should be taught in a new way

The University-school cluster created a year ago in the remote districts of Moscow — Nekrasovka, Kapotnya and Marino. It includes 33 educational complex, consisting of 220 schools and kindergartens. This cluster is in a pilot phase to work out the technique of “pulling up” underachieving schools to the level achievers, to teach teachers to work in the new paradigm of active learning. According to the ideologist of the project, the environment for the education of such teachers is formed just in the educational complexes, because there is a “main source of forward motion” — the diversity.

In the education cluster College Professor are first carried out with the teachers training program, then give them a task to study and master a certain amount of professional literature. After that — the examination of the absorption.

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The First month after giving birth

Birth of a child always, as they say, a holiday. However, here as in the tale, when all ends with a wedding, but no one talks like the main characters lived after the wedding…. So I had the idea to share with you the main points that are not considered young mothers while they are pregnant… All of the following terms refers to those moms who are at home a few days after birth, because in case of any complications, things are completely different…

Controversial issue – to give birth with or without a husband. This will let each pair decide depending on their lifestyle, mentality, etc! My personal belief is if you can’t bring your husband, bring someone you trust, just be sure to walk him around the courses in preparation for childbirth. Even the mere presence of a person is very helpful, but if he will know how to do massage, how to control your breathing, so all wonderful!

No matter how it looks before birth, that you’re strong, and easily able to cope with everything, one should not overestimate its strength. Before giving birth I thought I was for sure going to get it.

– wash,

– to prepare,

– caress,

– walk with a child,

– to care for him,

– to monitor senior,

– clean the apartment (I love cleanliness and order!!)

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What to do when your child lies?

First, the child learns to speak, then he learns to speak the truth then to lie. And when this momentous event happens, parents can congratulate themselves – their child has become an adult. Yet just yesterday the baby babbled something unintelligible.

And today – listen – he had already started to build lucid phrases that are meaningful to talk and comment on everything that happens to him and around. Parents are happy, they quickly learn to properly pronounce sounds and build sentences. Moreover, they taught him to speak the truth. The truth and nothing but the truth. Because the lies – it’s terrible, she never will, secret will be made manifest. This is taught to every child from early childhood. Spoke – be kind, tell the truth. What to do when your child is lying, and how to help him?

The cycle of lies

It would seem that explaining to your child that lying is bad, we adults are doing everything correctly. But why don’t face it – not only children, but also to yourself, what in life without lying almost impossible to do. Whether we like it or not, but it “window dressing” helps us to exist Continue reading

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