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This stubborn “Golden” child
Strangely enough, but the efforts of parents, the most stubborn and disobedient child may be the one born with the “Golden” child, obedient, diligent and kind.
We are talking about children with anal vector. You can call them the “mamonovskij” — these children, like anyone else, depend on mom, with her approval (or disapproval). These children are sometimes called passive — they are really led and need mom directed, praised, recognized his achievements.
Anal children differ in rigidity of thinking, and a slower metabolism. Their body is not designed for sprint races — in all senses of the word. Therefore, these children sometimes seem slow, and the parents may be tempting to hurry the child.
This leads to the fact that the child strays from his rhythm and can’t finish the job. Due to the peculiarities Continue reading
All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving mother in this situation is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.
But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?
First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.
Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.
Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.
Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so the “bad” example – though the streets, even though the school is not so terrible Continue reading
In our days, technology is of great importance, and such a thing as a computer, is now present in almost every family. He is a great help in all math calculations and indispensable in the work, has a wealth of information and the huge variety of virtual games, but it represents a great danger to our children, in the case of the uncontrolled use of the computer or Hobbies computer games, and mostly in this group fall risk adolescent boys.
Use of computer for kids
For the little ones now in the Internet provided a large number of educational games, such as online or prettification of computer puzzle games, and many educational programs to help the child develop, learn to read and count, train memory and help you remember the colors. But at such a young age it is better not to teach a child to such games, and replace them with Board games and a simple drawing on paper, painting colors or markers and picking up the mosaic. These familiar games not only help in the development of the child, and put him skills such as collaborative drawing game and if you involve to engage more children, or cleaning – inviting the child to clean up after a box or to collect the markers.
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