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This stubborn “Golden” child
Strangely enough, but the efforts of parents, the most stubborn and disobedient child may be the one born with the “Golden” child, obedient, diligent and kind.
We are talking about children with anal vector. You can call them the “mamonovskij” — these children, like anyone else, depend on mom, with her approval (or disapproval). These children are sometimes called passive — they are really led and need mom directed, praised, recognized his achievements.
Anal children differ in rigidity of thinking, and a slower metabolism. Their body is not designed for sprint races — in all senses of the word. Therefore, these children sometimes seem slow, and the parents may be tempting to hurry the child.
This leads to the fact that the child strays from his rhythm and can’t finish the job. Due to the peculiarities Continue reading
It is almost impossible to spoil a baby in the first year of life however, in this time you can lay the Foundation for its needed in the future. Children under nine months are not yet aware of that cry to manipulate their parents. What to do for a child grew up spoiled?
The sign said something to him.
If your child is short-tempered, whiny, very dependent on adults, constantly complains and cries over nothing, like a matter of life or death if he does not compromise and is very stubborn, know – it spoiled. Spoiled child relies on the parents and, as is typical in the absence of independence, childish and not able to come to terms with giving something up. A spoiled child does not feel the boundaries of their desires. “I want” – and to the point! He does not accept that the desire can be contentedly a little later, or not satisfied at all. He needs right now! Instead of getting your child starts to act up – to scream, to cry, in short, continue to demand. A habit to get everything at once, form a passive attitude to the world. Indeed, why bother, when all desires and so executed by themselves?
Parents who pay little attention to the kid, trying to compensate for this attention gifts and toys, not realizing that Continue reading
“Rose up in the morning, washed, cleaned up and immediately bring to the planet,” said the Little Prince in the tale of Saint-exupéry. Only how to convince your child?
Psychologists say that cleaning is not just useful, it is necessary for the formation of personality. Otherwise it grows up to be selfish and irresponsible people who knock things first you, and then on the wife or husband. On the contrary, the obligations giving him chores, you help a child become more independent and confident. Besides acquire a diligent assistant. And if so, then declare war child’s laziness.
How to teach a child 2 to 5 years to order
To accustom the child to the home work need 2-3 years . when the kids are keen to help adults, and your job is to support their desire. Three year olds are sensitive to the mess surrounding them, and if the home is an eternal mess, they are unlikely to grow neat.
The rule confidence
Strongly encourage the commitment of Chad to help you. Let the rag in his hands — let him wipe the dust. Little will perform assignments with joy, children of this age are fun imitating mom and dad. A very useful thing — a toy appliances. And year-old boy will be keen to vacuum the room with a toy cleaner that is accompanied by a special “trash”!
The rule of gradualism