Many parents care about their child as early as possible “sat on the potty.” And starting early to potty train, many of them fail, blaming it on just your baby. But was he really?
Some parents are trying to teach your child to potty as soon as he started to sit up, trying to get rid of Laundry and diapers, others, on the contrary, in no hurry, and their child at the right time a few days he suddenly sits to the right place.
Why is this happening? And the thing is that every baby has periods most sensitive to the development in that skill associated with the maturation of organs and systems of the body. Toilet training of the child must involve a sufficient period of strengthening the walls of the bladder, nervous system development and certain centers of the brain. And it happens not before 1 year 4 months. I note that this is the average age, in fact some children begin to control the processes of urination and defecation a little earlier and others a little later, but in any case, they all go through the same stages of development.
By the way, it should be noted that those parents who try to teach your toddler to use a toilet too early, often wait too early successes from him in other areas of development. Continue reading
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This stubborn “Golden” child
Strangely enough, but the efforts of parents, the most stubborn and disobedient child may be the one born with the “Golden” child, obedient, diligent and kind.
We are talking about children with anal vector. You can call them the “mamonovskij” — these children, like anyone else, depend on mom, with her approval (or disapproval). These children are sometimes called passive — they are really led and need mom directed, praised, recognized his achievements.
Anal children differ in rigidity of thinking, and a slower metabolism. Their body is not designed for sprint races — in all senses of the word. Therefore, these children sometimes seem slow, and the parents may be tempting to hurry the child.
This leads to the fact that the child strays from his rhythm and can’t finish the job. Due to the peculiarities Continue reading
Raising kids is one of the main parent task, which, as a complex mathematical equation, can have a huge number of solutions. Ways and methods of solving this very difficult and responsible tasks are referred to as methods of education. Regardless of the age of the child, his behavior and peculiarities of temper ancestors may use different ways of upbringing. The choice of methods used by parents upbringing almost everything is depending on how the parents themselves were brought up, what is the level of their pedagogical and psychological knowledge, also almost in everything is in dependence from which values are a priority for families, as parents understand the importance of education and the role of their assigned.
Important role in selecting methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.
Education does not only allow to generate saponaceous harmonic, a Mature person, from time to time they become the causes of many mental complexes.
The main ways of education
Method conversation or beliefs. This method can be used in the education of children of different ages and with any temper. During the conversation, the parent explains, and argues for how to behave in one or another Continue reading