Parents ‘ Divorce: how to help your child cope with feelings?

Starting the divorce process, many parents are less likely to think about their children, believing that “the child is easier to accept what is happening” and “the child quickly everyone will forget”.

Of course, children are able to adapt to any new conditions, but this does not mean that their soul will not remain deep shocks and wounds. Therefore, the necessary care and support of parents in such a sensitive and important period of family life – in the period of the divorce.

In most cases, divorce involves multiple losses: the distance of one of the parents, its final relocation to another residence, moving the child into a new home, change of the financial situation in the family, loss of familiar surroundings, family changes, loss of sense of well-being and security instability in everything.

Than to help a child in this situation, considering the above mentioned aspects and the fact that parental divorce is still nervous shock to a child’s psyche? Let’s start in order. Continue reading


As we often hear from parents that children do not pay attention to requests. And the parents are angry, frustrated, “How many times can you play that again? You are deaf. “. So why children do not respond to the request?

Remember the three main rules .

The authority of a parent is never to question. Forget these words: “You don’t obey me”. Keep your face, do not get hysterical. This does not mean that you need to talk to your child rude and inconsiderate. The child does not respond instantly to your requests? Do not rush to blame! Think about it, the baby was very tired and just doesn’t want to hear your instructions to do the things that make it not able to. Maybe the kid just thought, focused on his own feelings. Except with you it isn’t that you can’t hear anything around, absorbed in their emotions? Whether your requirement matches the capabilities and age of your child? Think about that before you put the task in front of the baby. Mom nervously flashy two-three-year-old children: “don’t move! Stay where you are! Don’t run! Now, sit still!”, — to cause confusion. You understand that a child of three should not sit quietly, for him, this state is not normal and pathological. Children at this age needs Continue reading

Children should be taught in a new way

The University-school cluster created a year ago in the remote districts of Moscow — Nekrasovka, Kapotnya and Marino. It includes 33 educational complex, consisting of 220 schools and kindergartens. This cluster is in a pilot phase to work out the technique of “pulling up” underachieving schools to the level achievers, to teach teachers to work in the new paradigm of active learning. According to the ideologist of the project, the environment for the education of such teachers is formed just in the educational complexes, because there is a “main source of forward motion” — the diversity.

In the education cluster College Professor are first carried out with the teachers training program, then give them a task to study and master a certain amount of professional literature. After that — the examination of the absorption.

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