personality

How to raise a child

“SHOULD only child to feel loved and cherished and surrounded by a happy family, as it has become a powerful stimulus for the development of his brain.

The parent task is not to make a child Prodigy, but the fact that their child grew up healthy, sober, and decent,” said Peter Gorski, an employee of the medical faculty of Harvard University.

All parents want their children to become moral, caring and sensitive people. You can achieve this goal if we will try to set a good example, to be a friend, companion and teacher.

Although all children have an innate ability to do good and right, parents still need to constantly instill in them moral values.

Scientists disagree about who most affects the development of the child. According to some, his character is influenced by peers.

However, experts in the field of Pediatrics berry Brazelton and Stanley Greenspan emphasized that the sensitivity and responsiveness in children from an early age parents lay.

Further experience and peer influence are only additions to what is laid down in the child from the beginning.

It is important that the family was shown to the children compassion and understanding. Also it is important to teach them restraint characteristic of Mature people. Children receiving Continue reading

Bad habits in children at school

All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving mother in this situation is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.

But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?

First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.

Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.

Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.

Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so the “bad” example – though the streets, even though the school is not so terrible Continue reading

MOM OR DAD: WHO is more IMPORTANT?

It was believed that girls are more important mother, for a boy — dad. But times and mores have changed…

In the old days everything was loud and clear: the father — getter, moral authority, protection and support. He has the right to prohibit and punish, to guide the child in choosing a career. Mother — the Keeper of the hearth. She settles the household, takes care of children, providing emotional support. Today, increasingly, we observed sex-role exchange. Mother and father also become interchangeable figures.

THE MORES OF A NEW ERA

That daddy knows how to wash and cook, and my mother — to make good money, is no surprise. It is believed that flexibility, flexible parental roles positively affects the child’s development, because modern society requires individuals of the same — flexibility, ability to compromise, to adapt to the circumstances. Brutal cowboys and pampered Princess in the past. Today plays a major role strong personality, individuality, able to withstand the stresses of the information society, to know themselves and develop their best side. This is what psychologists and sociologists suggest that you prepare.

SIGNIFICANT FIGURES

Mom for the baby — the whole world. It is important physical intimacy moms, breastfeeding, constant tactile Continue reading

MOM OR DAD: WHO is more IMPORTANT?
It was believed that girls are more important mother, for a boy — dad. But times and mores have changed… In the old days everything was loud and clear: the…

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The Influence of modern cartoons for children
Every day our children come from school (kindergarten) and while we, moms, are busy with housework, they spend their leisure time at computers and televisions, where time to watch cartoons,…

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The Man asks for money
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