Parents sometimes face the situation that they tell the child one thing and he does not hear and does the opposite. There is the anger and outrage. Let’s see what was the matter. Why the child “hear” what you say? It turns out the child perceives our phrase on its own.
In the childhood phrase-programs are easily digested, as the child’s mind control is lower than in adults. Any careless word perceived by children literally. Parents, often without realizing it, inform the child of the phrase with a hidden installation that is not benefiting them. Of course, this happens unconsciously, we are trying to help, but use the incorrect phrase.
Today we look at the often used phrase and determine how their child hears.
«do Not walk through puddles, catch a cold”, “the dog ” bite”, “Eat slowly, your stomach will be sore”, etc.
The child hears that the world is hostile. All, whatever he did, it is dangerous. That is, it is better to do nothing.
In the future it may become passive, afraid to make a step towards peace, it will Continue reading
American marketers appreciate the “use value” child $100 thousand – that’s the number one American should spend on purchases throughout her life . E ugodno the average American child sees 40 thousand television commercials.
In the early 1990-ies, when the U.S. was spent annually on advertising aimed at children, not more than $100 million American parents and teachers worried that there is a growing generation that will take the most important amount of money and property.
In 2000-ies in America on advertising for children is spent annually to $12 billion.
Allen KannerAllen Kanner, a psychologist from Wright research Institute, believes that among children growing consumer sentiment. “Children become greedy consumers”, – says the psychologist. ” When I ask them, what are you going to do when I grow up, they respond that will make the money. When they discuss their friends, they talk about their clothes, the brands of clothes they wear, and not on their human qualities.”
Age requirement for advertising, is constantly decreasing. Now two-year-old child Continue reading
Sucking of the thumb, gryzenia nail, wrap your hair on your finger. The fidgeting in his chair, picking his nose, a habit of slouching or excessive excessive gestures. Most of these habits are not in any danger, but the bad news is that over time others will laugh at the child. But if it becomes an adult habit, can be a serious hindrance in life.
The Director of a large company at a meeting in the nose needs to be picked. Georgian President hardly needs in a difficult situation even chew his tie.
If your child has one or two bad habits, and they are not very pronounced – it means that you have a normal child, and you are great parents. Of course, you slowly will be your child these habits to wean. to teach more appropriate behavior, and can be sure that in a month, a year or a few years, all those habits that your child will disappear. All – right!
Another thing, when your child has a lot of bad habits, if takes one replaced the other, and with age, the situation is not improving is the situation more difficult. Diagnosis: you child started, and good parents you are difficult to call. Bad habits Continue reading