How to understand school problems? They are so diverse that sometimes it’s hard to do even for an expert. Even more difficult — the teacher. Often lack patience and understanding parents. But most of all suffers from them a child!
Sometimes it starts, seemingly with little things; the slow pace of work, difficulties in memorizing the letters, inability to concentrate. Something blamed on age — say, not used, still small; something on the shortcomings of education; something — for unwillingness to work. But at this point, the difficulties are even relatively easy to detect, they are quite easy to fix. But then the problem snowballing — is one difficulty pulling the other, forming a terrible and vicious cycle. Constant failures so discouraged child that the difficulties of “creep” from one subject to another.
The child is given: begins to consider himself helpless, unable, and all your efforts useless. Psychologists believe that learning outcomes depend not only on the capable or not capable to solve its task, but also on how he believes that he will be able to solve this problem. If the failures follow one another, then, of course, there comes a time when the child himself says: “No, I never will”. Times “never”, then there is no need Continue reading
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This stubborn “Golden” child
Strangely enough, but the efforts of parents, the most stubborn and disobedient child may be the one born with the “Golden” child, obedient, diligent and kind.
We are talking about children with anal vector. You can call them the “mamonovskij” — these children, like anyone else, depend on mom, with her approval (or disapproval). These children are sometimes called passive — they are really led and need mom directed, praised, recognized his achievements.
Anal children differ in rigidity of thinking, and a slower metabolism. Their body is not designed for sprint races — in all senses of the word. Therefore, these children sometimes seem slow, and the parents may be tempting to hurry the child.
This leads to the fact that the child strays from his rhythm and can’t finish the job. Due to the peculiarities Continue reading
Raising kids is one of the main parent task, which, as a complex mathematical equation, can have a huge number of solutions. Ways and methods of solving this very difficult and responsible tasks are referred to as methods of education. Regardless of the age of the child, his behavior and peculiarities of temper ancestors may use different ways of upbringing. The choice of methods used by parents upbringing almost everything is depending on how the parents themselves were brought up, what is the level of their pedagogical and psychological knowledge, also almost in everything is in dependence from which values are a priority for families, as parents understand the importance of education and the role of their assigned.
Important role in selecting methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.
Education does not only allow to generate saponaceous harmonic, a Mature person, from time to time they become the causes of many mental complexes.
The main ways of education
Method conversation or beliefs. This method can be used in the education of children of different ages and with any temper. During the conversation, the parent explains, and argues for how to behave in one or another Continue reading