We will also concentrate on the moment, which is not always taken into account, but we must keep it in mind. There is a Vedic system of education for boys and girls. It is a completely different upbringing. Boys from the age of five in the Vedic society gave to the theological school. In raising boys and girls there is a difference, just as there is a difference between a man and a woman.
The difference is that the boy should be educated in responsibility for society, for my future wife, my future children and to increase the overall strength of mind, strength of knowledge, strength, skill, i.e., to cultivate the positive qualities associated with the liability. Educating girls is to give her understanding of the importance of: what is family, what is it that she was oriented in all family matters and family relations as a fish in water. In the Vedic culture the girl brought up at home, and mom often helped friends and acquaintances, skilled in various fields: in cooking, embroidering, etc., and also the quality of character of the girl was brought up in accordance with the behavior of the adult female, which she was looking.
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Every day our children come from school (kindergarten) and while we, moms, are busy with housework, they spend their leisure time at computers and televisions, where time to watch cartoons, play dress up games. “What cartoons began to show now? And how do they affect the baby?», – more often parents too late think about it, because it is now formed identity of the children, their psyche, Outlook, ability to distinguish between good and evil.
With cartoon adaptations your child builds in the mind set of images associated with a man and a woman. Especially important is the image of the girl in contemporary fairy tales, not how she looks, and her consciousness and habits – after all, if you have a girl, she is looking for a example on the “big screen”, and the boy – shapes in the subconscious ideal woman, which then connects life. The researchers concluded that female gender, in the movie of our time, lost neatness, modesty, romance, and approached more to the crafty, gloating and physiological needs. In the eyes of a child, a good and kind human qualities may lose value. As for children’s vision male image on the screen – here the situation is no better.
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It was believed that girls are more important mother, for a boy — dad. But times and mores have changed…
In the old days everything was loud and clear: the father — getter, moral authority, protection and support. He has the right to prohibit and punish, to guide the child in choosing a career. Mother — the Keeper of the hearth. She settles the household, takes care of children, providing emotional support. Today, increasingly, we observed sex-role exchange. Mother and father also become interchangeable figures.
THE MORES OF A NEW ERA
That daddy knows how to wash and cook, and my mother — to make good money, is no surprise. It is believed that flexibility, flexible parental roles positively affects the child’s development, because modern society requires individuals of the same — flexibility, ability to compromise, to adapt to the circumstances. Brutal cowboys and pampered Princess in the past. Today plays a major role strong personality, individuality, able to withstand the stresses of the information society, to know themselves and develop their best side. This is what psychologists and sociologists suggest that you prepare.
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