All good habits of children parents consider its merit, and in the poor blaming the street, friends and, of course, school. You can often hear as a mother complains that her son was a good, sweet boy, but I went to school not to learn: constantly arguing, with all the quarrels, trying to offend. Grieving mother in this situation is clear – we want to see in their children only the best quality. The more a shame when you have these qualities we try to instill.
But is it so much to be frightened by bad habits?
First, any habit is basically a need. Therefore to fight it by prohibitions and punishments often simply impossible.
Secondly, bad habits parents often consider those that don’t like them. Actually, the division habits good and bad is very relative.
Adults understand that when it comes to their own “oddities”. But to children, we tend to be more demanding.
Thirdly, the emergence of habits and inclinations are largely due to their personalities and upbringing in early childhood, so the “bad” example – though the streets, even though the school is not so terrible Continue reading
Raising kids is one of the main parent task, which, as a complex mathematical equation, can have a huge number of solutions. Ways and methods of solving this very difficult and responsible tasks are referred to as methods of education. Regardless of the age of the child, his behavior and peculiarities of temper ancestors may use different ways of upbringing. The choice of methods used by parents upbringing almost everything is depending on how the parents themselves were brought up, what is the level of their pedagogical and psychological knowledge, also almost in everything is in dependence from which values are a priority for families, as parents understand the importance of education and the role of their assigned.
Important role in selecting methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.
Education does not only allow to generate saponaceous harmonic, a Mature person, from time to time they become the causes of many mental complexes.
The main ways of education
Method conversation or beliefs. This method can be used in the education of children of different ages and with any temper. During the conversation, the parent explains, and argues for how to behave in one or another Continue reading
It was believed that girls are more important mother, for a boy — dad. But times and mores have changed…
In the old days everything was loud and clear: the father — getter, moral authority, protection and support. He has the right to prohibit and punish, to guide the child in choosing a career. Mother — the Keeper of the hearth. She settles the household, takes care of children, providing emotional support. Today, increasingly, we observed sex-role exchange. Mother and father also become interchangeable figures.
THE MORES OF A NEW ERA
That daddy knows how to wash and cook, and my mother — to make good money, is no surprise. It is believed that flexibility, flexible parental roles positively affects the child’s development, because modern society requires individuals of the same — flexibility, ability to compromise, to adapt to the circumstances. Brutal cowboys and pampered Princess in the past. Today plays a major role strong personality, individuality, able to withstand the stresses of the information society, to know themselves and develop their best side. This is what psychologists and sociologists suggest that you prepare.
Mom for the baby — the whole world. It is important physical intimacy moms, breastfeeding, constant tactile Continue reading