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The Contact with the child

Sometimes that busy parents lose contact with the child. How can I recover it? Another frequent situation is that adults come together, form a family, men need to establish contact with the child from his first marriage. How?

Describe Your relationship at the moment.

What would You like to see your relationship with Your child?

What is your relationship with the child’s mother?

Those involved in raising the child?

How often and how much time spends with the child wife?

How often and how much time they spend with the child You?

What do You do with a child when spending time together?

Do You know the interests and Hobbies of Your child?

Do You know his favorite books, movies?

Do You know his friends?

Would You like Your child’s behavior was similar to You? – then take the process of education into their own hands. Continue reading

Small children.

The lectures of the famous British child psychiatrist and psychoanalyst addressed to pediatricians, internists, obstetricians, nurses, and, of course, parents. For parents and expectant moms and dads – this book is immensely important because it relieves the unfounded anxiety and instills confidence. It describes and analyzes motherhood as it is, without horror and embellishment. For example, the feeling of total absorption in newborn, bordering on extinction of self, depression and irritation, fear of being “a bad mother”, the strange behavior of the child.

Professionals will be pleasantly surprised or, conversely, puzzled and a little shocked, but I’ll get food for thought.

Probably, Winnicott was also a kind man.

It is difficult to write the Foreword to the book, which is not like him, but maybe even harder to the one that is admired. I want to use some superlatives, and I think, I myself would this Preface did not believe. But what to do if the book of Winnicott is really an absolutely unique phenomenon in the psychological and psychoanalytic literature, and his figure is seen standing at the gates of modern non-classical analysis may be a kind of measure things.

I remember such a case: Continue reading

The influence of the environment on child development

In social pedagogy society, the social environment is seen primarily from the point of view of the process of inclusion of the child in her and integration through the nearest social environment in society as a whole.

From this point of view becomes important that the relationship of human and external social conditions of his life in the society are of the nature of the interaction. Wednesday – it’s not just the streets, houses and things, the location of which is sufficient to know the person to logging in, to feel comfortable there. Wednesday is also the most diverse community of people who are characterized by a specific system of relations and rules, applicable to all members of the community. Therefore, on the one hand, people make something of themselves, to a certain extent, affect her, cheating on her, but at the same time, and the environment affects the person, makes him their demands. It may take a person some of his actions, manifestations, and can reject; to treat him kindly, and perhaps hostile.

The relation of environment to man is determined by how its behavior conforms to the expectations of the environment. The behavior of a person is largely determined by what position he occupies in society.

Person can occupy in society multiple positions. So, a woman can be a teacher, a wife, a mother. Continue reading

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