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How to teach a child to potty

Many parents care about their child as early as possible “sat on the potty.” And starting early to potty train, many of them fail, blaming it on just your baby. But was he really?

Some parents are trying to teach your child to potty as soon as he started to sit up, trying to get rid of Laundry and diapers, others, on the contrary, in no hurry, and their child at the right time a few days he suddenly sits to the right place.

Why is this happening? And the thing is that every baby has periods most sensitive to the development in that skill associated with the maturation of organs and systems of the body. Toilet training of the child must involve a sufficient period of strengthening the walls of the bladder, nervous system development and certain centers of the brain. And it happens not before 1 year 4 months. I note that this is the average age, in fact some children begin to control the processes of urination and defecation a little earlier and others a little later, but in any case, they all go through the same stages of development.

By the way, it should be noted that those parents who try to teach your toddler to use a toilet too early, often wait too early successes from him in other areas of development. Continue reading

How to teach 7-year-old son to obey?

Your question is complicated by their small informative — unfortunately, the information provided by you is not enough for a full-fledged system of psychoanalysis. However, I will try to respond maximally deployed.

This stubborn “Golden” child

Strangely enough, but the efforts of parents, the most stubborn and disobedient child may be the one born with the “Golden” child, obedient, diligent and kind.

We are talking about children with anal vector. You can call them the “mamonovskij” — these children, like anyone else, depend on mom, with her approval (or disapproval). These children are sometimes called passive — they are really led and need mom directed, praised, recognized his achievements.

Anal children differ in rigidity of thinking, and a slower metabolism. Their body is not designed for sprint races — in all senses of the word. Therefore, these children sometimes seem slow, and the parents may be tempting to hurry the child.

This leads to the fact that the child strays from his rhythm and can’t finish the job. Due to the peculiarities Continue reading

The Child is not sleeping during the day

Every kid under the age of 7 years must sleep — this rule inspire parents, education specialists and child care. In all modes day — what is described on the Internet that used in kindergartens — day dream there is certainly. However, many parents are familiar with the fact that the child is not sleeping during the day. And there are babies who refuse to rest or sleep very bad, even in the months of age.

The reasons why the child is not sleeping

Various reasons why you might have a little sleep in the afternoon, pretty much. For example, one of the major — the child doesn’t need NAPs. Although it seems that children grow in your sleep, it is more important for these purposes it was night sleep. Therefore, as a rule, children who refuse to rest during the day, more than compensate for his good night. However, this is true only for kids who don’t suffer nervous breakdowns, inadequate behavior, moodiness and irritability. So to pacify temperament need at least a few hours of sleep per day in addition.

Another reason why the child can’t sleep during the day, called the peculiarities of his temperament. These little ones are usually related to children with special needs. This usually hyperactive children, who are particularly impulsivity, Continue reading

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