It was believed that girls are more important mother, for a boy — dad. But times and mores have changed…
In the old days everything was loud and clear: the father — getter, moral authority, protection and support. He has the right to prohibit and punish, to guide the child in choosing a career. Mother — the Keeper of the hearth. She settles the household, takes care of children, providing emotional support. Today, increasingly, we observed sex-role exchange. Mother and father also become interchangeable figures.
THE MORES OF A NEW ERA
That daddy knows how to wash and cook, and my mother — to make good money, is no surprise. It is believed that flexibility, flexible parental roles positively affects the child’s development, because modern society requires individuals of the same — flexibility, ability to compromise, to adapt to the circumstances. Brutal cowboys and pampered Princess in the past. Today plays a major role strong personality, individuality, able to withstand the stresses of the information society, to know themselves and develop their best side. This is what psychologists and sociologists suggest that you prepare.
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Or the difference in upbringing
M AMA in a child’s life is nature itself, something that nourishes, protects, teaches co-exist with all in the circle in harmony, not violence. To teach patience, timeliness, acceptance of change and stimulates harmonious changes in the nature and body of the baby.
If you need anything regularity that is more organic mom to watch it and to teach to remember the baby by themselves (hygiene, self-care, independence, etc. in General, anything that allows it to adapt in the world). The function of adaptation is the female energy! And precisely this is the essence of motherhood.
If your child has problems with the environment, with peers, communication, trust, and adherence to code of laws imposed by the outside world, it is the problem MOM. And no one can replace her, no surrogates in the form of educators, teachers, psychologists and psychotherapists. (well, except that dad may try in case of complete absence of mom, but I successful cases of such transformation is not known).
But dad is the energy of action, cognition, conquest! Only the male energy is able to teach to learn, to strive to achieve something, to overcome yourself and your abilities, and life’s obstacles on the way to the goal!
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