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The Contact with the child

Sometimes that busy parents lose contact with the child. How can I recover it? Another frequent situation is that adults come together, form a family, men need to establish contact with the child from his first marriage. How?

Describe Your relationship at the moment.

What would You like to see your relationship with Your child?

What is your relationship with the child’s mother?

Those involved in raising the child?

How often and how much time spends with the child wife?

How often and how much time they spend with the child You?

What do You do with a child when spending time together?

Do You know the interests and Hobbies of Your child?

Do You know his favorite books, movies?

Do You know his friends?

Would You like Your child’s behavior was similar to You? – then take the process of education into their own hands. Continue reading

Small children.

The lectures of the famous British child psychiatrist and psychoanalyst addressed to pediatricians, internists, obstetricians, nurses, and, of course, parents. For parents and expectant moms and dads – this book is immensely important because it relieves the unfounded anxiety and instills confidence. It describes and analyzes motherhood as it is, without horror and embellishment. For example, the feeling of total absorption in newborn, bordering on extinction of self, depression and irritation, fear of being “a bad mother”, the strange behavior of the child.

Professionals will be pleasantly surprised or, conversely, puzzled and a little shocked, but I’ll get food for thought.

Probably, Winnicott was also a kind man.

It is difficult to write the Foreword to the book, which is not like him, but maybe even harder to the one that is admired. I want to use some superlatives, and I think, I myself would this Preface did not believe. But what to do if the book of Winnicott is really an absolutely unique phenomenon in the psychological and psychoanalytic literature, and his figure is seen standing at the gates of modern non-classical analysis may be a kind of measure things.

I remember such a case: Continue reading

Recommendations for the education of children of preschool

In order to answer the question about the proper upbringing of her own child, as a parent, you are required to accurately establish what it means, before it becomes boring tyrant. Many do not often think about it, turning the day to day process into a series of installations in a variety of prohibitions, restrictions on the kid: something categorically “no”, and the other is clearly “necessary”. In the best embodiment, and in standard, you will be able to teach eager young man to behave, but no more. The educational course is the formation of the own hands of the individual, in order to bring to public life, which corresponds to the generally accepted standards of socio-cultural models.

The predictable result of educational activity

The education of the child must involve the presence of goals. where there is a clear view of the future. In other words, the educational activity must predict the creation that you lust after to get it, so to say “out”. Therefore, it is desirable to know exactly what features you want to define the future.

List some characteristics that may form in the educational process:

– in the first year of life, you can develop a level of confidence of man to the world, that is, how much the baby will be able to feel comfortable Continue reading

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