Parents sometimes face the situation that they tell the child one thing and he does not hear and does the opposite. There is the anger and outrage. Let’s see what was the matter. Why the child “hear” what you say? It turns out the child perceives our phrase on its own.
In the childhood phrase-programs are easily digested, as the child’s mind control is lower than in adults. Any careless word perceived by children literally. Parents, often without realizing it, inform the child of the phrase with a hidden installation that is not benefiting them. Of course, this happens unconsciously, we are trying to help, but use the incorrect phrase.
Today we look at the often used phrase and determine how their child hears.
«do Not walk through puddles, catch a cold”, “the dog ” bite”, “Eat slowly, your stomach will be sore”, etc.
The child hears that the world is hostile. All, whatever he did, it is dangerous. That is, it is better to do nothing.
In the future it may become passive, afraid to make a step towards peace, it will Continue reading
How to understand school problems? They are so diverse that sometimes it’s hard to do even for an expert. Even more difficult — the teacher. Often lack patience and understanding parents. But most of all suffers from them a child!
Sometimes it starts, seemingly with little things; the slow pace of work, difficulties in memorizing the letters, inability to concentrate. Something blamed on age — say, not used, still small; something on the shortcomings of education; something — for unwillingness to work. But at this point, the difficulties are even relatively easy to detect, they are quite easy to fix. But then the problem snowballing — is one difficulty pulling the other, forming a terrible and vicious cycle. Constant failures so discouraged child that the difficulties of “creep” from one subject to another.
The child is given: begins to consider himself helpless, unable, and all your efforts useless. Psychologists believe that learning outcomes depend not only on the capable or not capable to solve its task, but also on how he believes that he will be able to solve this problem. If the failures follow one another, then, of course, there comes a time when the child himself says: “No, I never will”. Times “never”, then there is no need Continue reading
Every kid under the age of 7 years must sleep — this rule inspire parents, education specialists and child care. In all modes day — what is described on the Internet that used in kindergartens — day dream there is certainly. However, many parents are familiar with the fact that the child is not sleeping during the day. And there are babies who refuse to rest or sleep very bad, even in the months of age.
The reasons why the child is not sleeping
Various reasons why you might have a little sleep in the afternoon, pretty much. For example, one of the major — the child doesn’t need NAPs. Although it seems that children grow in your sleep, it is more important for these purposes it was night sleep. Therefore, as a rule, children who refuse to rest during the day, more than compensate for his good night. However, this is true only for kids who don’t suffer nervous breakdowns, inadequate behavior, moodiness and irritability. So to pacify temperament need at least a few hours of sleep per day in addition.
Another reason why the child can’t sleep during the day, called the peculiarities of his temperament. These little ones are usually related to children with special needs. This usually hyperactive children, who are particularly impulsivity, Continue reading