How to understand school problems? They are so diverse that sometimes it’s hard to do even for an expert. Even more difficult — the teacher. Often lack patience and understanding parents. But most of all suffers from them a child!
Sometimes it starts, seemingly with little things; the slow pace of work, difficulties in memorizing the letters, inability to concentrate. Something blamed on age — say, not used, still small; something on the shortcomings of education; something — for unwillingness to work. But at this point, the difficulties are even relatively easy to detect, they are quite easy to fix. But then the problem snowballing — is one difficulty pulling the other, forming a terrible and vicious cycle. Constant failures so discouraged child that the difficulties of “creep” from one subject to another.
The child is given: begins to consider himself helpless, unable, and all your efforts useless. Psychologists believe that learning outcomes depend not only on the capable or not capable to solve its task, but also on how he believes that he will be able to solve this problem. If the failures follow one another, then, of course, there comes a time when the child himself says: “No, I never will”. Times “never”, then there is no need Continue reading
Raising kids is one of the main parent task, which, as a complex mathematical equation, can have a huge number of solutions. Ways and methods of solving this very difficult and responsible tasks are referred to as methods of education. Regardless of the age of the child, his behavior and peculiarities of temper ancestors may use different ways of upbringing. The choice of methods used by parents upbringing almost everything is depending on how the parents themselves were brought up, what is the level of their pedagogical and psychological knowledge, also almost in everything is in dependence from which values are a priority for families, as parents understand the importance of education and the role of their assigned.
Important role in selecting methods of education is the parent’s behavior, which can be authoritarian, a complacent and democratic.
Education does not only allow to generate saponaceous harmonic, a Mature person, from time to time they become the causes of many mental complexes.
The main ways of education
Method conversation or beliefs. This method can be used in the education of children of different ages and with any temper. During the conversation, the parent explains, and argues for how to behave in one or another Continue reading
To 13 months, many parents begin to feel the stubbornness of children and to engage them in conflict, because the kids loudly declare your desires. This is the age of surprises for parents. But for children it is natural at this age to Express their desires, their opinions, develop a sense of his power and the feeling of influence on the world. For them it is now the main task.
A feature of this age is the word “no”, but it turns out that we teach this to their children. Neuroscientist Alan shore said that the baby hears the word “no” or its equivalent on average every nine minutes. Kids want to assert their will, and for them it is quite natural goal, but every time they hear: “No, you cannot play the pot on the couch, give it to me. Don’t run, sit in the car now. No, candy is not. No, it may break. Don’t fight!” Legitimate bans, every one of them. But the kid does not see the grounds for them, so most children resent, rebel and check every ban. This new feature is belligerent stubbornness — the first step to taking responsibility for yourself. Now if he’s not allowed to tell you “no”, then he will not be able to say “no” to their peers when they become a teenager. Give him a chance Continue reading