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Children can’t hear what he said

Parents sometimes face the situation that they tell the child one thing and he does not hear and does the opposite. There is the anger and outrage. Let’s see what was the matter. Why the child “hear” what you say? It turns out the child perceives our phrase on its own.

In the childhood phrase-programs are easily digested, as the child’s mind control is lower than in adults. Any careless word perceived by children literally. Parents, often without realizing it, inform the child of the phrase with a hidden installation that is not benefiting them. Of course, this happens unconsciously, we are trying to help, but use the incorrect phrase.

Today we look at the often used phrase and determine how their child hears.

«do Not walk through puddles, catch a cold”, “the dog ” bite”, “Eat slowly, your stomach will be sore”, etc.

The child hears that the world is hostile. All, whatever he did, it is dangerous. That is, it is better to do nothing.

In the future it may become passive, afraid to make a step towards peace, it will Continue reading

How to teach a child to potty

Many parents care about their child as early as possible “sat on the potty.” And starting early to potty train, many of them fail, blaming it on just your baby. But was he really?

Some parents are trying to teach your child to potty as soon as he started to sit up, trying to get rid of Laundry and diapers, others, on the contrary, in no hurry, and their child at the right time a few days he suddenly sits to the right place.

Why is this happening? And the thing is that every baby has periods most sensitive to the development in that skill associated with the maturation of organs and systems of the body. Toilet training of the child must involve a sufficient period of strengthening the walls of the bladder, nervous system development and certain centers of the brain. And it happens not before 1 year 4 months. I note that this is the average age, in fact some children begin to control the processes of urination and defecation a little earlier and others a little later, but in any case, they all go through the same stages of development.

By the way, it should be noted that those parents who try to teach your toddler to use a toilet too early, often wait too early successes from him in other areas of development. Continue reading

What to do when your child lies?

First, the child learns to speak, then he learns to speak the truth then to lie. And when this momentous event happens, parents can congratulate themselves – their child has become an adult. Yet just yesterday the baby babbled something unintelligible.

And today – listen – he had already started to build lucid phrases that are meaningful to talk and comment on everything that happens to him and around. Parents are happy, they quickly learn to properly pronounce sounds and build sentences. Moreover, they taught him to speak the truth. The truth and nothing but the truth. Because the lies – it’s terrible, she never will, secret will be made manifest. This is taught to every child from early childhood. Spoke – be kind, tell the truth. What to do when your child is lying, and how to help him?

The cycle of lies

It would seem that explaining to your child that lying is bad, we adults are doing everything correctly. But why don’t face it – not only children, but also to yourself, what in life without lying almost impossible to do. Whether we like it or not, but it “window dressing” helps us to exist Continue reading

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How to teach a child to potty
Many parents care about their child as early as possible "sat on the potty." And starting early to potty train, many of them fail, blaming it on just your baby.…

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