The lectures of the famous British child psychiatrist and psychoanalyst addressed to pediatricians, internists, obstetricians, nurses, and, of course, parents. For parents and expectant moms and dads – this book is immensely important because it relieves the unfounded anxiety and instills confidence. It describes and analyzes motherhood as it is, without horror and embellishment. For example, the feeling of total absorption in newborn, bordering on extinction of self, depression and irritation, fear of being “a bad mother”, the strange behavior of the child.
Professionals will be pleasantly surprised or, conversely, puzzled and a little shocked, but I’ll get food for thought.
Probably, Winnicott was also a kind man.
It is difficult to write the Foreword to the book, which is not like him, but maybe even harder to the one that is admired. I want to use some superlatives, and I think, I myself would this Preface did not believe. But what to do if the book of Winnicott is really an absolutely unique phenomenon in the psychological and psychoanalytic literature, and his figure is seen standing at the gates of modern non-classical analysis may be a kind of measure things.
I remember such a case: Continue reading
1. Wash your hands before you take the child.
2. Keep the nails of their hands always clean and bobbed.
3. Wear 4-ply mask of gauze or a clean handkerchief if you suffer from a runny nose.
4. Do not take a pacifier in the mouth or baby spoon.
5. ‘t have to kiss the person, hand the baby.
6. Give the child a separate bowl.
7. Do not hold and do not let into a room where an infant, Pets (dogs, cats, birds).
8. Do not allow the child sick children, and adults.
Daily toilet of the child
Spend a morning. Hands and face are washed with boiled water, eyes wiped with a cotton ball soaked or boiled water, or a solution of boric acid (1 tsp. of boric acid to 1 Cup of warm water), holding wool from outer corner of eye to nose. For each eye your cotton swab.
Nose clean cotton wicks, paraffin oil lubricated; Pinna – the flagellum of the wool. Continue reading
First, the child learns to speak, then he learns to speak the truth then to lie. And when this momentous event happens, parents can congratulate themselves – their child has become an adult. Yet just yesterday the baby babbled something unintelligible.
And today – listen – he had already started to build lucid phrases that are meaningful to talk and comment on everything that happens to him and around. Parents are happy, they quickly learn to properly pronounce sounds and build sentences. Moreover, they taught him to speak the truth. The truth and nothing but the truth. Because the lies – it’s terrible, she never will, secret will be made manifest. This is taught to every child from early childhood. Spoke – be kind, tell the truth. What to do when your child is lying, and how to help him?
The cycle of lies
It would seem that explaining to your child that lying is bad, we adults are doing everything correctly. But why don’t face it – not only children, but also to yourself, what in life without lying almost impossible to do. Whether we like it or not, but it “window dressing” helps us to exist Continue reading