How to understand school problems? They are so diverse that sometimes it’s hard to do even for an expert. Even more difficult — the teacher. Often lack patience and understanding parents. But most of all suffers from them a child!
Sometimes it starts, seemingly with little things; the slow pace of work, difficulties in memorizing the letters, inability to concentrate. Something blamed on age — say, not used, still small; something on the shortcomings of education; something — for unwillingness to work. But at this point, the difficulties are even relatively easy to detect, they are quite easy to fix. But then the problem snowballing — is one difficulty pulling the other, forming a terrible and vicious cycle. Constant failures so discouraged child that the difficulties of “creep” from one subject to another.
The child is given: begins to consider himself helpless, unable, and all your efforts useless. Psychologists believe that learning outcomes depend not only on the capable or not capable to solve its task, but also on how he believes that he will be able to solve this problem. If the failures follow one another, then, of course, there comes a time when the child himself says: “No, I never will”. Times “never”, then there is no need Continue reading
It was believed that girls are more important mother, for a boy — dad. But times and mores have changed…
In the old days everything was loud and clear: the father — getter, moral authority, protection and support. He has the right to prohibit and punish, to guide the child in choosing a career. Mother — the Keeper of the hearth. She settles the household, takes care of children, providing emotional support. Today, increasingly, we observed sex-role exchange. Mother and father also become interchangeable figures.
THE MORES OF A NEW ERA
That daddy knows how to wash and cook, and my mother — to make good money, is no surprise. It is believed that flexibility, flexible parental roles positively affects the child’s development, because modern society requires individuals of the same — flexibility, ability to compromise, to adapt to the circumstances. Brutal cowboys and pampered Princess in the past. Today plays a major role strong personality, individuality, able to withstand the stresses of the information society, to know themselves and develop their best side. This is what psychologists and sociologists suggest that you prepare.
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In our days, technology is of great importance, and such a thing as a computer, is now present in almost every family. He is a great help in all math calculations and indispensable in the work, has a wealth of information and the huge variety of virtual games, but it represents a great danger to our children, in the case of the uncontrolled use of the computer or Hobbies computer games, and mostly in this group fall risk adolescent boys.
Use of computer for kids
For the little ones now in the Internet provided a large number of educational games, such as online or prettification of computer puzzle games, and many educational programs to help the child develop, learn to read and count, train memory and help you remember the colors. But at such a young age it is better not to teach a child to such games, and replace them with Board games and a simple drawing on paper, painting colors or markers and picking up the mosaic. These familiar games not only help in the development of the child, and put him skills such as collaborative drawing game and if you involve to engage more children, or cleaning – inviting the child to clean up after a box or to collect the markers.
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