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This stubborn “Golden” child
Strangely enough, but the efforts of parents, the most stubborn and disobedient child may be the one born with the “Golden” child, obedient, diligent and kind.
We are talking about children with anal vector. You can call them the “mamonovskij” — these children, like anyone else, depend on mom, with her approval (or disapproval). These children are sometimes called passive — they are really led and need mom directed, praised, recognized his achievements.
Anal children differ in rigidity of thinking, and a slower metabolism. Their body is not designed for sprint races — in all senses of the word. Therefore, these children sometimes seem slow, and the parents may be tempting to hurry the child.
This leads to the fact that the child strays from his rhythm and can’t finish the job. Due to the peculiarities Continue reading
This article is not about education in the pedagogical sense of the word, but to circumvent this important question we could not. And although books on child pedagogy lot, but still interesting to see how raising children in different countries. Well, contact the eyewitnesses.
In his book ‘Sakura & oak” V. Ovchinnikov, telling about the life, the way of life in Japan and England, recreates a lot of interesting details of raising children.
“there are Few on the ground of the countries where the children would be surrounded by more love than in Japan. But the seal of subordination is even on the parent’s feelings. Eldest son stand out among other children. It is treated literally as the heir to the throne, although the throne that only the parental home.
From an early age such baby is often the most obnoxious in the house.
It is taught to perceive concessions granted, because he will be then not only taking care of elderly parents, but the responsibility for the family as a whole, for procreation, for the father’s house.
As the eldest son grows up, he and his father begins to decide what is good and what is bad for his younger siblings.
Japanese from childhood Continue reading